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Your Heart Matters
Mark Myhre asked:
Does this sound familiar?
“If I can just figure it all out, then I’ll be okay.”
“Then I’ll be safe.”
“Then I can figure out a way to be happy.”
In theory, it doesn’t sound like such a bad idea. You DO need to know what’s going on; to be aware.
But awareness comes from the heart as well as the head. They’re both equally important.
Doesn’t seem like it, though. We’ve been taught and conditioned – practically since birth – to focus on our thoughts and to ignore our feelings.
When you shut out your feelings, your begin to build walls around your heart.
As you come to believe one of the Big Lies of society – “Feelings are bad and wrong and you must do everything you can to shut them out and lock them away”… then your heart appears to wither like a plant denied water.
Remember the one-hundred-year-old classic by James Allen – “As A Man Thinketh”? If you haven’t read it, the whole book can be summed up in one sentence – Thoughts create reality.
Which isn’t such a bad idea.
Now could you imagine a book called – “As A Woman Feeleth”?
Yeah, I thought it was funny too. But when you got through laughing would you buy the book?
Most people wouldn’t. Who cares what a woman ‘feeleth’?
In today’s society, thinking equals strength; while feeling equals weakness.
Look where it’s gotten us.
Could you even IMAGINE a more dysfunctional society?
Keep ignoring your feelings, and you won’t have to imagine. Cause you’ll be living it!
Here’s why you need a strong heart as well as a strong head:
Your head activates and stimulates; while your heart generates and receives.
Your head rationalizes and justifies; while your heart creates a higher order of being – beyond logic.
Your head attempts to dominate and control; while your heart loves, allows and embraces.
Bottom line – your heart creates the space and your head fills the space.
Your heart can incubate your dreams.
But so many have lost touch with their own heart; abandoning it as they were forced to deny their own feelings.
By a society that allows no room for matters of the heart.
When you ignore or deny your heart, it creates separation. Separation leads to pain.
It hurts to not feel your heart. Now would be a good time to start changing things.
When you balance your heart with your head, you can reduce and even eliminate that pain.
Here’s one way to start:
Imagine your heart as a chamber (which it is) – more real than your physical body.
See it as being REAL. Visualize it.
Imagine you’re standing next to it.
Now look at what’s currently in your heart. Don’t judge what you see. Invest the time to look closely and closer. Look deeply; beyond the obvious.
Don’t settle for the knee-jerk answer -
“Oh yeah, my heart’s cold!”
Look deeper.
Develop the habit of looking at your heart.
Next, reach out and touch your heart. You won’t hurt it. Not any worse than you already have.
Start by touching the outside membrane of the chamber of your heart. Just imagine yourself standing next to your heart, imagine what it looks like, and then imagine yourself reaching out to it.
There’s no ‘right’ way or ‘wrong’ way to do it; it’s simply a matter of doing it ‘your’ way.
You can develop a relationship with your heart.
Like a teenage couple – awkward at first – but they kind of figure it out, don’t they?
You can start out in a similar way with your heart.
You don’t NEED to know how to reconnect with your heart. You’ll find there’s such a strong attraction between the two of you that it just sort of works itself out.
Once you get started.
You’ll find your heart longs for you as much as you long for it. Like a magnetic attraction. Like two teenagers in the back of a Chevy.
You’ll find the pain doesn’t come from your heart.
The pain comes from the separation.
Does this sound familiar?
“If I can just figure it all out, then I’ll be okay.”
“Then I’ll be safe.”
“Then I can figure out a way to be happy.”
In theory, it doesn’t sound like such a bad idea. You DO need to know what’s going on; to be aware.
But awareness comes from the heart as well as the head. They’re both equally important.
Doesn’t seem like it, though. We’ve been taught and conditioned – practically since birth – to focus on our thoughts and to ignore our feelings.
When you shut out your feelings, your begin to build walls around your heart.
As you come to believe one of the Big Lies of society – “Feelings are bad and wrong and you must do everything you can to shut them out and lock them away”… then your heart appears to wither like a plant denied water.
Remember the one-hundred-year-old classic by James Allen – “As A Man Thinketh”? If you haven’t read it, the whole book can be summed up in one sentence – Thoughts create reality.
Which isn’t such a bad idea.
Now could you imagine a book called – “As A Woman Feeleth”?
Yeah, I thought it was funny too. But when you got through laughing would you buy the book?
Most people wouldn’t. Who cares what a woman ‘feeleth’?
In today’s society, thinking equals strength; while feeling equals weakness.
Look where it’s gotten us.
Could you even IMAGINE a more dysfunctional society?
Keep ignoring your feelings, and you won’t have to imagine. Cause you’ll be living it!
Here’s why you need a strong heart as well as a strong head:
Your head activates and stimulates; while your heart generates and receives.
Your head rationalizes and justifies; while your heart creates a higher order of being – beyond logic.
Your head attempts to dominate and control; while your heart loves, allows and embraces.
Bottom line – your heart creates the space and your head fills the space.
Your heart can incubate your dreams.
But so many have lost touch with their own heart; abandoning it as they were forced to deny their own feelings.
By a society that allows no room for matters of the heart.
When you ignore or deny your heart, it creates separation. Separation leads to pain.
It hurts to not feel your heart. Now would be a good time to start changing things.
When you balance your heart with your head, you can reduce and even eliminate that pain.
Here’s one way to start:
Imagine your heart as a chamber (which it is) – more real than your physical body.
See it as being REAL. Visualize it.
Imagine you’re standing next to it.
Now look at what’s currently in your heart. Don’t judge what you see. Invest the time to look closely and closer. Look deeply; beyond the obvious.
Don’t settle for the knee-jerk answer -
“Oh yeah, my heart’s cold!”
Look deeper.
Develop the habit of looking at your heart.
Next, reach out and touch your heart. You won’t hurt it. Not any worse than you already have.
Start by touching the outside membrane of the chamber of your heart. Just imagine yourself standing next to your heart, imagine what it looks like, and then imagine yourself reaching out to it.
There’s no ‘right’ way or ‘wrong’ way to do it; it’s simply a matter of doing it ‘your’ way.
You can develop a relationship with your heart.
Like a teenage couple – awkward at first – but they kind of figure it out, don’t they?
You can start out in a similar way with your heart.
You don’t NEED to know how to reconnect with your heart. You’ll find there’s such a strong attraction between the two of you that it just sort of works itself out.
Once you get started.
You’ll find your heart longs for you as much as you long for it. Like a magnetic attraction. Like two teenagers in the back of a Chevy.
You’ll find the pain doesn’t come from your heart.
The pain comes from the separation.
The Secret Of True Love.
Vishwriter asked:
Have you ever asked yourself what is the Secret of True Love?
Take This….
The ability to fetch a wonderful thought from the universe (just like you pluck a beautiful flower from the garden) and to care about it long enough and to pay it undivided attention such that whoever is the recipient of the thought (be it your partner, your child, your parents or your friend) immediately from that point on feels damn good even if he or she is miles away from you. This is the secret of True Love…..This is the way relationships grow and blossom into a full blown rose flower…
Strength does not lie in licking a woman’s breast; even a stray dog can do that. Strength is always the power of a beautiful thought not the domination of the muscle. The strength of a muscle can break a dozen bones but it cannot travel beyond a certain distance. A glorious thought however can travel leap years ahead, beyond continents and beyond the realm of time and space. It can deliver messages at lightening speed and can rebuild a million lives and bring smile to humanity. It is that powerful.
Attention to a caring or authentic thought is what is love .Every other thing is a stray dogs meal.
So what are the qualities of a great relationship?
The first and foremost is to FEEL DAMN GOOD ! If you don’t feel good reading this email, if you don’t feel good talking to someone, if you don’t feel good when someone walks into your house then there is a good chance that you really do not care about the relationship too much….
So feeling good is the highest attribute of a great relationship. Everything else is secondary. You have to learn the ability to fall in love with your thoughts…And then love in all forms be it money, relationships or health will come knocking at your doors. You can sitting in a remote corner of the world send out a wonderful and caring thought and the person at the other end can immediately feel damn good…. Thoughts are way too powerful it is just that you have not experienced its power, its strength.
John once told me that that poverty is a state of mind being broke is only a passing phase. You don’t have to regret being broke He had experienced the downside of life…
Hatred and animosity towards your partner is a state of mind facing big time problems in your relationships is a passing phase. You can turn the tables around very quickly…
Feeling low and weak is a state of mind , current health problems is only a passing phase.
You should not mistake the current circumstances to be your destiny. They are only a passing phase what is permanent is your thoughts, your state of mind. That is where you have to begin the work. If you pay too much attention to the current events surrounding you then you become a play tool of circumstances and events . You got to learn the fine art of holding on to fewer thoughts, of breaking focus of your day to day problems and caring about your thoughts….
Would you like to learn the fine art of sitting in a remote corner and sending a caring thought to your partner who is miles away from you and the moment you release this loving thought he or she feels damn good ? Would you like to learn that skill?
Would you like to fetch a powerful thought, an idea, nourish it take care of it, give it legs feed it with strength and then send this loving thought to the universe and the universe in turn hands you cash…? A Million dollars or more. Would you like to experience this? You think all this is fun, philosophical bookish… Damn It ! They are all a piece of cake. All great things were backed up by blazing clarity of thoughts. Go back and re-read history and you will see that most of the millionaires and rich people were broke or average at a certain point of their life….
Ditto with Health…. There have been cases where cancer has been cured with the power of thoughts. This is no joke. I am not hear to have fun. I don’t enjoy writing ordinary mails. My mails reach the recipients heart faster than the Fedex guys…I am pretty serious with what I do. John would seem casual on occasions but he has a mighty heart, a reservoir of spiritual energy and so he can afford to play with certain things. Not you and me…
The moment of truth has arrived….
Problem is the obstacle and Problem is the key. For Problems according to ancient scriptures is the guardian of knowledge. The supreme obstacle is the supreme door.
You can chose with all your might to overcome problems and knock it down and even if you are successful you will find that a new wall has already been formed behind the existing one. It is a never ending game a totally futile action a, complete waste of energy. Would you like to continue doing this or would you like to open the secret door to experiencing true love , because love is money, love is relationships and love is great health… It is a piece of cake as clear as the blue sky you can see it with both eyes all you need is insight, a spark of curiosity , a collision with feeling if you will….
A murmur in the soul tells of a world to be…says the great John Harricharan . I am pretty sure there is no soul in this earth save a few who knows his real strength. He is a mighty warrior who can save a million souls he has got that strength. I have seen and experienced it. He is the real deal … The time to unlock his reservoir has finally arrived… You are damn lucky to be living in an age where John is physically alive. Go and re-read what I have written above and compare it to the best texts you have written and you will see that there is something in this mail which touches your deepest being, which bruises your ego, causes a rash in your body. Thoughts are mighty powerful. They can generate wealth, build homes, and bring a smile onto your face. I would like to see one in your being this moment right now….
Come join us in this epic Power Pause Workshop and we will completely transform your life . We will hand over all these skills on a platter. It would be fun, adventurous and breathtaking. This is no ordinary workshop… You got to experience it ….
Imagine the joy you would feel when you are able to fetch a wonderful thought from the universe and send it to the universe and the universe in turn helps you generate tons of cash, builds your relationship and automatically takes care of your health. You think this is a dream. You could say so because there are handful few in this world who are living this dream. And today is your golden chance to do so.
So just to recap this is what you take away with you as a Power Pause Workshop Attendee:
1) The Complete Power Pause Kit which includes the PDF book with bundles of other Bonuses which currently sells for $97. You get it as a physical shipment in the form of a CD.
2) The Complete Video of Power pause(not yet released to the pubic selling in private circles for $197. You get it as a gift once you join this program). You get this in the form of a DVD.
3) Four High Powered Teleseminars by John where he takes live case studies and shows you step by step in a gentle and caring manner how great tools are identified and personalized and how you can turn your back on to problems and recreate the magical colours of life… He has never done this before. This is a great challenge to him and it is going to work wonders for you..Even if you miss this call the entire call would be recorded and the transcript also available to you as a download.
4) Six Member Mastermind Group . Four State of the Art Group Calls which will be intense, personal and taken care of by me. I will personally put you in groups of six so that you get sufficient chance to get up and close with me. This would the perfect icing on the cake and it would be so wonderful to be sharing with each of you those great tools which John has personally taught me and which has worked magic into my life.
The stage is set for a grand finale… All you got to do is enter the field and the rest we will take care…. You will look back on this day with pride, with a smile which nature will endorse, Dreams will turn real…. Love will work its way into your thoughts, you will experience sudden jerks and suddenly you will be transported into a world full of abundance, prosperity where you can feel, touch, laugh and cry with a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Get it if you want to , ignore it at your own risk and if you chose the latter, it will still stay around you ,giving you another opportunity. Why delay the inevitable ? This is the day this is the time this is the moment. The moment of truth has arrived. You are just one click away from experiencing the magic of life. Hold yourself no more. Break free and dance your way into life… 38 slots remain… Reserve your spot right now…..
Love and Affection
Vish
In studying books we are sometimes deluded into thinking that thereby we are being spiritually helped; but , if we analyse the effects of the study of books on ourselves, we shall find that at the utmost, it is only our intellect that derives profit from such studies, and not our inner spirit. This inadequacy of books to quicken spiritual growth is the reason why, although almost everyone of us can speak most wonderfully on spiritual life, we find ourselves so awfully deficient. To quicken the spirit, the impulse must come from another soul. Today is your chance to meet up with a gigantic spirit . Hold yourself no more. Break free and dance your way into life…. http://www.TotalBusinessSystem.com/app/javanof.asp?MerchantID=92700&ProductID=3785346
Have you ever asked yourself what is the Secret of True Love?
Take This….
The ability to fetch a wonderful thought from the universe (just like you pluck a beautiful flower from the garden) and to care about it long enough and to pay it undivided attention such that whoever is the recipient of the thought (be it your partner, your child, your parents or your friend) immediately from that point on feels damn good even if he or she is miles away from you. This is the secret of True Love…..This is the way relationships grow and blossom into a full blown rose flower…
Strength does not lie in licking a woman’s breast; even a stray dog can do that. Strength is always the power of a beautiful thought not the domination of the muscle. The strength of a muscle can break a dozen bones but it cannot travel beyond a certain distance. A glorious thought however can travel leap years ahead, beyond continents and beyond the realm of time and space. It can deliver messages at lightening speed and can rebuild a million lives and bring smile to humanity. It is that powerful.
Attention to a caring or authentic thought is what is love .Every other thing is a stray dogs meal.
So what are the qualities of a great relationship?
The first and foremost is to FEEL DAMN GOOD ! If you don’t feel good reading this email, if you don’t feel good talking to someone, if you don’t feel good when someone walks into your house then there is a good chance that you really do not care about the relationship too much….
So feeling good is the highest attribute of a great relationship. Everything else is secondary. You have to learn the ability to fall in love with your thoughts…And then love in all forms be it money, relationships or health will come knocking at your doors. You can sitting in a remote corner of the world send out a wonderful and caring thought and the person at the other end can immediately feel damn good…. Thoughts are way too powerful it is just that you have not experienced its power, its strength.
John once told me that that poverty is a state of mind being broke is only a passing phase. You don’t have to regret being broke He had experienced the downside of life…
Hatred and animosity towards your partner is a state of mind facing big time problems in your relationships is a passing phase. You can turn the tables around very quickly…
Feeling low and weak is a state of mind , current health problems is only a passing phase.
You should not mistake the current circumstances to be your destiny. They are only a passing phase what is permanent is your thoughts, your state of mind. That is where you have to begin the work. If you pay too much attention to the current events surrounding you then you become a play tool of circumstances and events . You got to learn the fine art of holding on to fewer thoughts, of breaking focus of your day to day problems and caring about your thoughts….
Would you like to learn the fine art of sitting in a remote corner and sending a caring thought to your partner who is miles away from you and the moment you release this loving thought he or she feels damn good ? Would you like to learn that skill?
Would you like to fetch a powerful thought, an idea, nourish it take care of it, give it legs feed it with strength and then send this loving thought to the universe and the universe in turn hands you cash…? A Million dollars or more. Would you like to experience this? You think all this is fun, philosophical bookish… Damn It ! They are all a piece of cake. All great things were backed up by blazing clarity of thoughts. Go back and re-read history and you will see that most of the millionaires and rich people were broke or average at a certain point of their life….
Ditto with Health…. There have been cases where cancer has been cured with the power of thoughts. This is no joke. I am not hear to have fun. I don’t enjoy writing ordinary mails. My mails reach the recipients heart faster than the Fedex guys…I am pretty serious with what I do. John would seem casual on occasions but he has a mighty heart, a reservoir of spiritual energy and so he can afford to play with certain things. Not you and me…
The moment of truth has arrived….
Problem is the obstacle and Problem is the key. For Problems according to ancient scriptures is the guardian of knowledge. The supreme obstacle is the supreme door.
You can chose with all your might to overcome problems and knock it down and even if you are successful you will find that a new wall has already been formed behind the existing one. It is a never ending game a totally futile action a, complete waste of energy. Would you like to continue doing this or would you like to open the secret door to experiencing true love , because love is money, love is relationships and love is great health… It is a piece of cake as clear as the blue sky you can see it with both eyes all you need is insight, a spark of curiosity , a collision with feeling if you will….
A murmur in the soul tells of a world to be…says the great John Harricharan . I am pretty sure there is no soul in this earth save a few who knows his real strength. He is a mighty warrior who can save a million souls he has got that strength. I have seen and experienced it. He is the real deal … The time to unlock his reservoir has finally arrived… You are damn lucky to be living in an age where John is physically alive. Go and re-read what I have written above and compare it to the best texts you have written and you will see that there is something in this mail which touches your deepest being, which bruises your ego, causes a rash in your body. Thoughts are mighty powerful. They can generate wealth, build homes, and bring a smile onto your face. I would like to see one in your being this moment right now….
Come join us in this epic Power Pause Workshop and we will completely transform your life . We will hand over all these skills on a platter. It would be fun, adventurous and breathtaking. This is no ordinary workshop… You got to experience it ….
Imagine the joy you would feel when you are able to fetch a wonderful thought from the universe and send it to the universe and the universe in turn helps you generate tons of cash, builds your relationship and automatically takes care of your health. You think this is a dream. You could say so because there are handful few in this world who are living this dream. And today is your golden chance to do so.
So just to recap this is what you take away with you as a Power Pause Workshop Attendee:
1) The Complete Power Pause Kit which includes the PDF book with bundles of other Bonuses which currently sells for $97. You get it as a physical shipment in the form of a CD.
2) The Complete Video of Power pause(not yet released to the pubic selling in private circles for $197. You get it as a gift once you join this program). You get this in the form of a DVD.
3) Four High Powered Teleseminars by John where he takes live case studies and shows you step by step in a gentle and caring manner how great tools are identified and personalized and how you can turn your back on to problems and recreate the magical colours of life… He has never done this before. This is a great challenge to him and it is going to work wonders for you..Even if you miss this call the entire call would be recorded and the transcript also available to you as a download.
4) Six Member Mastermind Group . Four State of the Art Group Calls which will be intense, personal and taken care of by me. I will personally put you in groups of six so that you get sufficient chance to get up and close with me. This would the perfect icing on the cake and it would be so wonderful to be sharing with each of you those great tools which John has personally taught me and which has worked magic into my life.
The stage is set for a grand finale… All you got to do is enter the field and the rest we will take care…. You will look back on this day with pride, with a smile which nature will endorse, Dreams will turn real…. Love will work its way into your thoughts, you will experience sudden jerks and suddenly you will be transported into a world full of abundance, prosperity where you can feel, touch, laugh and cry with a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Get it if you want to , ignore it at your own risk and if you chose the latter, it will still stay around you ,giving you another opportunity. Why delay the inevitable ? This is the day this is the time this is the moment. The moment of truth has arrived. You are just one click away from experiencing the magic of life. Hold yourself no more. Break free and dance your way into life… 38 slots remain… Reserve your spot right now…..
Love and Affection
Vish
In studying books we are sometimes deluded into thinking that thereby we are being spiritually helped; but , if we analyse the effects of the study of books on ourselves, we shall find that at the utmost, it is only our intellect that derives profit from such studies, and not our inner spirit. This inadequacy of books to quicken spiritual growth is the reason why, although almost everyone of us can speak most wonderfully on spiritual life, we find ourselves so awfully deficient. To quicken the spirit, the impulse must come from another soul. Today is your chance to meet up with a gigantic spirit . Hold yourself no more. Break free and dance your way into life…. http://www.TotalBusinessSystem.com/app/javanof.asp?MerchantID=92700&ProductID=3785346