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wife sent a pictues of her to coworkers, is she cheating?
Fer A asked:
me and my wife were having serious problems, i was being a real jerk, calling her names, and everything, Later on i found out that she was talking to her coworkers, via internet, and she sent a couple of her pictures in her underwear, to a couple of male coworkers. i confronted these 2 guys one by one, they both say nothing happened, that they did not really care about this pics. what should i do? I am full of insecurities now, if there is someone that can help i will appreciated.
by the way we did separated for a couple of weeks but even then she was coming back to me for sex, on that we never had a problem with, it has been over a year of all this, but it is still strong in my head.
me and my wife were having serious problems, i was being a real jerk, calling her names, and everything, Later on i found out that she was talking to her coworkers, via internet, and she sent a couple of her pictures in her underwear, to a couple of male coworkers. i confronted these 2 guys one by one, they both say nothing happened, that they did not really care about this pics. what should i do? I am full of insecurities now, if there is someone that can help i will appreciated.
by the way we did separated for a couple of weeks but even then she was coming back to me for sex, on that we never had a problem with, it has been over a year of all this, but it is still strong in my head.
stupid, jerk off FIL and step daughter! help?
Bella asked:
ok, so i know this isnt my place, but if i could have killed my father in law last night, i would have… he has always been an azz…. but really, only to me… and he acts like he’s joking.. thats fine.. i have learned how to tolerate him, and i am old enough to know how to let his stupidity go in one ear and out the other.. mind you, my husband never lets him disrespect me, but if he’s just being a stupid idiot, he knows i can handle myself, so he chooses his battles with his dad… which is fine.. but, my husband has 2 daughters, a 7 year old and a 5 year old.. the 7 year old is ever so slightly overweight… but we know she needs to just maintain her weight and she’ll grow into it… we try really hard to counteract what her mother tells her about getting fat and how she cant have pasta and bread and sugar and all sorts of crapola a 7 year old doesnt need to hear… she eats well with us, has dessert, and enjoys herself.. a few nights ago, when she wasnt with us, i had made some chocolate strawberries for my parents for their anniversary and saved a few for us.. we had dinner at his parents last night where the strawberries were and after dinner, his father (my FIL) had given the kids a piece of panettone with nutella (bread with chocolate spread). well, it was the last night of vaca for the girls, and if we didnt eat the strawberries, they would have withered into a syrupy mess… so i asked my husband before doing it, if i could still offer them.. besides, there is very little chocolate on them, but you know, once in a while wont hurt.. he said fine.. so, i brought them up, and we all enjoyed 2 … well, when the 7 year old was on her 2nd, i had asked her how many she had, because i wasnt sure.. it was only #2 and i said that the last 2 were for her grandmother and to save them… well, dummy FIL from the couch told her it was enough… she told him it was only #2 and her father (my husband) stood up for her and said that she was only on #2 and that it was ok… FIL starts yelling and saying something like its enough she doesnt need anymore and basically just acting like a real jerk… and he really was yelling.. i couldnt understand all the words he said, cause he spoke in italian, but i got the jist, and the 7 year old does understand… well, thank goodness her father stood up for her and told him to shut up, that it was just a bit of strawberry with a little chocolate and to leave her alone… then, he went outside to let their dog in and while he was gone, FIL starts yelling at the girl again, yet i have no idea what was said and she starts to cry.. she’s trying to finish her game of checkers with me, but sniffles a little in between.. my husband comes back inside and his father starts in with something about that being his house and he cant believe he’s getting yelled at in his own house, then he storms off to his bedroom… i was infuriated with this azz and his comments! my problem is, since they arent my kids, and i have only been a part of the family for 2 years, i cant say anything to him… i can only be there for the girls.. he came out of his room before we left and the girl went and apologized to him.. he said it was ok, it was over.. and we left.. she told me she had apologized when we got in the car and i told her she had nothing to apologize for… i had already told her it was ok and her father was right there so he would have said if it wasnt ok.. her father agreed with me and we tried to make her feel better… what am i supposed to do if i cant even stick up for her when a family member is treating her wrong? i know that was something that was best left to my husband, but i am still infuriated by this man! if it was my own kid, it would be fine for me to stick up for her… what if she thinks i wont protect her? what can i do? doesnt this make me look weak? or should i have said something? i will have a conversation with my husband about all this, but its just not the right time yet…
ok, so i know this isnt my place, but if i could have killed my father in law last night, i would have… he has always been an azz…. but really, only to me… and he acts like he’s joking.. thats fine.. i have learned how to tolerate him, and i am old enough to know how to let his stupidity go in one ear and out the other.. mind you, my husband never lets him disrespect me, but if he’s just being a stupid idiot, he knows i can handle myself, so he chooses his battles with his dad… which is fine.. but, my husband has 2 daughters, a 7 year old and a 5 year old.. the 7 year old is ever so slightly overweight… but we know she needs to just maintain her weight and she’ll grow into it… we try really hard to counteract what her mother tells her about getting fat and how she cant have pasta and bread and sugar and all sorts of crapola a 7 year old doesnt need to hear… she eats well with us, has dessert, and enjoys herself.. a few nights ago, when she wasnt with us, i had made some chocolate strawberries for my parents for their anniversary and saved a few for us.. we had dinner at his parents last night where the strawberries were and after dinner, his father (my FIL) had given the kids a piece of panettone with nutella (bread with chocolate spread). well, it was the last night of vaca for the girls, and if we didnt eat the strawberries, they would have withered into a syrupy mess… so i asked my husband before doing it, if i could still offer them.. besides, there is very little chocolate on them, but you know, once in a while wont hurt.. he said fine.. so, i brought them up, and we all enjoyed 2 … well, when the 7 year old was on her 2nd, i had asked her how many she had, because i wasnt sure.. it was only #2 and i said that the last 2 were for her grandmother and to save them… well, dummy FIL from the couch told her it was enough… she told him it was only #2 and her father (my husband) stood up for her and said that she was only on #2 and that it was ok… FIL starts yelling and saying something like its enough she doesnt need anymore and basically just acting like a real jerk… and he really was yelling.. i couldnt understand all the words he said, cause he spoke in italian, but i got the jist, and the 7 year old does understand… well, thank goodness her father stood up for her and told him to shut up, that it was just a bit of strawberry with a little chocolate and to leave her alone… then, he went outside to let their dog in and while he was gone, FIL starts yelling at the girl again, yet i have no idea what was said and she starts to cry.. she’s trying to finish her game of checkers with me, but sniffles a little in between.. my husband comes back inside and his father starts in with something about that being his house and he cant believe he’s getting yelled at in his own house, then he storms off to his bedroom… i was infuriated with this azz and his comments! my problem is, since they arent my kids, and i have only been a part of the family for 2 years, i cant say anything to him… i can only be there for the girls.. he came out of his room before we left and the girl went and apologized to him.. he said it was ok, it was over.. and we left.. she told me she had apologized when we got in the car and i told her she had nothing to apologize for… i had already told her it was ok and her father was right there so he would have said if it wasnt ok.. her father agreed with me and we tried to make her feel better… what am i supposed to do if i cant even stick up for her when a family member is treating her wrong? i know that was something that was best left to my husband, but i am still infuriated by this man! if it was my own kid, it would be fine for me to stick up for her… what if she thinks i wont protect her? what can i do? doesnt this make me look weak? or should i have said something? i will have a conversation with my husband about all this, but its just not the right time yet…
My husband is a real jerk. My mom passed away 6 months ago and he has not been supportive AT ALL?
GQ69 asked:
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Dorian
The subject as if it never asks me how am always mad at something am always mad at something am always mad at something am beginning to myself cry when am doing and not in front of him am alone and not in front of him am beginning to resent him am very.
Dorian
Abusive jerk of a husband – divorce or disappear?
Emma asked:
What is the best thing to do when your husband is abusive. I am scared he will follow me and hound me forever if I divorce him; I’ll have to be connected to him, through the finances, forever…we have minor children who he doesn’t want to see. He’s busy with a girlfriend, infatuated and crazy. He’s been terrible to me and the children. He’s left us in America when he took a job in Canada, gives no child support. Would it be better to just leave and run? I feel that his money would be a drag and the court process horrible. I can earn myself, support myself and the kids – he doesn’t want anything to do with them. People are saying ‘take him to the cleaners’, but I think divorce may hurt me more than him. The process, I mean. Emotionally harrowing. This guy is a real jerk and would make court hell, I am sure. What should I do?
What is the best thing to do when your husband is abusive. I am scared he will follow me and hound me forever if I divorce him; I’ll have to be connected to him, through the finances, forever…we have minor children who he doesn’t want to see. He’s busy with a girlfriend, infatuated and crazy. He’s been terrible to me and the children. He’s left us in America when he took a job in Canada, gives no child support. Would it be better to just leave and run? I feel that his money would be a drag and the court process horrible. I can earn myself, support myself and the kids – he doesn’t want anything to do with them. People are saying ‘take him to the cleaners’, but I think divorce may hurt me more than him. The process, I mean. Emotionally harrowing. This guy is a real jerk and would make court hell, I am sure. What should I do?